Uncensored _Three Things To Consider When Flirting

  Some people want to flirt but don't know how to go about it and end up in embarrassing position.

Your choice of words
It is not particularly OK to use the word ‘cute’ for any adult male.
Why not replace such words for something that ‘Hot’ and watch him feel like a hunk!

Waving away all compliments
You might be a master at deflecting compliments, but you can’t be doing that if you really are serious about flirting.
You need to keep him engaged, and rejecting every single compliment is not the way to go about it.

Not flirting back
A colleague was telling me last week about a certain babe who is a big fan of Richard Mofe Damijo’s, and when she finally met him at an event, she could not even bring herself to say hello, despite the fact that her friends literally pushed all night long to go say hello, at least.
That scenario above perfectly explains my point here.
Many times, you put yourself in a position to meet a gorgeous guy and when he comes around, you clamp shut your mouth and can’t bring yourself to say hello. And even sometimes when he says it, your response sends him running.
You’re out to flirt not to be chased, right?

Please, ma’am, flirt back. That’s how it works.

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Five Signs Your Friend Is Making a Move To Destroy Your Relationship

You’re bff’s could be indirectly ruining your relationship with some subtle actions that you may not notice. Though this goes two ways, sometimes we could be blind and love the wrong person and they might just want to be good friends and save us and also sometimes, well, they just want to pour sand in your garri.

1. THEY THINK YOUR DATE ISN’T GOOD ENOUGH: Ever been here? You date someone you really like but your friends think your date’s obnoxious or ugly? At times like these, you may start wondering yourself if you’ve made the wrong choice. And once you start thinking, it’s easy to mentally turn even a perfect partner into an ugly hag.

2. THEY TALK ABOUT YOUR EX’S WHEN THE NEW DATE IS AROUND: Past relationships are always sensitive. When you and your date are hanging out with your friends, do your friends constantly talk about your exes or about the way you used to behave around an ex just to have a laugh?

3. THEY ENCOURAGE YOU TO CHEAT: Your friend may love one night stands, but they really shouldn’t be trying to convince you to do the same when you’re in a relationship. It’s easy to be manipulated by friends you trust, but sometimes you need to space yourself from these kinds of friends who don’t want your romantic relationships to evolve into something better.

4. AND THEY DISRESPECT YOU WHEN YOUR LOVER IS THERE: Do your friends treat you disrespectfully when you’re with your date? Your friends should help you impress your date and win a lover over, not make you look bad. If your friends put you down in front of your lover, they’re probably jealous or annoyed.

5. AND THEY FLIRT WITH YOUR LOVER: There are bad friends and then there are worse. Friends who flirt with your new date behind your back are the worst kind. If your friend tries to put you down, or calls up your lover and speaks for hours when you’re not around, there’s a good chance that your friend is looking for ways to break both of you up and enter the picture.

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Uncensored _man or boy

Have you ever wondered,why your man can't seem to man up or dosent take thing serious, it could be because you are are nt dating a man but a boy.

There are clear signs that your man isnt yet a man but a boy.

1_He Gets Wasted Too Often-
I’m all for going out and getting blasted every once in a while, but after college or university, it shouldn’t be the whole point of every night out. Cleaning up his pile and dealing with his morning-after hangovers is going to get old fast.

2_ He Only Cares About Himself- 
He has no interest in your hopes and dreams unless they revolve around him; he only cares that his needs are being met. An actual adult would have already figured out he’s not the center of the goddamn universe.

3_ He Lives With His Parents-.
Yeah, no shit, right? Still, when we’re drawn to people, we tend to make excuses for their faults. But this is the reddest of red flags. How can you expect to have an adult relationship with someone who’s never left the nest?

4_ He Can’t Hold Down A Job-
I’m not saying he has to have his whole career planned out, but if he blows off work when he doesn’t feel like going, quits or gets fired because he’s too lazy or the job is too boring, this guy still doesn’t know life isn’t always about doing whatever he wants to do all the time.

5_He Refuses To Compromise-
This guy has an unrealistic and outdated idea of what it means to be a man. He thinks that unless everything is done on his terms, he’ll be perceived as weak-willed. Grown-ups know life is full of compromises.A relationship without compromise is fake.

6_ He Intentionally Makes You Jealous-.
This is another sign of insecurity, which isn’t the most masculine of qualities. For whatever reason, he wants you to believe he has other options besides you and he makes sure you know about them.

7_ Boys only want to hook up -
men invest their time and energy in the right woman.
There’s a moment in every man’s life when he realises that being in a relationship makes him significantly happier than chasing “tail” every night. If you’re only hearing from him at 1 a.m. on a Saturday night, he’s not ready to give up his toys. Move on and find yourself a grown man.

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Uncensored_why do we date

Have you ever asked yourself this question. why do I date? Not many people seem to have a tangible reason as to why they are in a relationship. Most people date because others are dating. When you date without purpose abuse is inevitable. A guy or a girl who is committed to you and hasn't prepared for the future will mess up. Be the person you want to date.
Relationships are beautiful but not as easy as it seems. Don't go into relationship hoping for too much too soon.
Test- ask three people who u know are dating, why they are dating and see their response.
Quote _ you are an idiot but you are my idiot.

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