Chimamanda Adichie: Beyoncé's feminism isn't my feminism; it's a kind that gives quite a lot of space to the necessity of men

Award winning writer Chimamanda Adichie has commented for the first time on Beyoncé's feminism

The singer used fragments of the famous author's speech in her song Flawless. Ms Adichie makes it clear that she supports Beyoncé's feminist ideology even though she feels her views differ slightly from Beyonce's because her "type of feminism is the kind that gives quite a lot of space to the necessity of men"

'In the first place: of course Beyoncé asked permission to use my texts, and I did give her permission. I think she's lovely and I am convinced that she has nothing but the best intentions. In addition, Beyoncé is a celebrity of the first order and with this song she has reached many people who would otherwise probably never have heard the word feminism, let alone gone out and buy my essay.' 

"But I was shocked about how many requests for an interview I received when that song was released. Literally every major newspaper in the world wanted to speak with me about Beyoncé. I felt such a resentment (laughs loudly). I thought: are books really that unimportant to you? Another thing I hated was that I read everywhere: now people finally know her, thanks to Beyoncé, or: she must be very grateful. I found that disappointing. I thought: I am a writer and I have been for some time and I refuse to perform in this charade that is now apparently expected of me: "Thanks to Beyoncé, my life will never be the same again." That's why it didn't speak about it much

"Her style is not my style, but I do find it interesting that she takes a stand in political and social issues, since a few years. She portrays a woman who is in charge of her own destiny, who does her own thing, and she has girl power. I am very taken with that.'   "Still, her type of feminism is not mine, as it is the kind that, at the same time, gives quite a lot of space to the necessity of men. I think men are lovely, but I don't think that women should relate everything they do to men: did he hurt me, do I forgive him, did he put a ring on my finger? We women are so conditioned to relate everything to men. Put a group of women together and the conversation will eventually be about men. Put a group of men together and they will not talk about women at all, they will just talk about their own stuff. We women should spend about 20 per cent of our time on men, because it's fun, but otherwise we should also be talking about our own stuff."

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8 Reasons Why You Should Date Girls With Big Boobs… Funny But True!!!

While most guys prefer aSSnal some of us prefer Manchester. But, there’s a difference between being busty and “WTF is on her chest” kinda bosom. Anyways here are a few reason why i and a minute 40 percent of other Nigerian guys prefer dating girls who carry their blessings on their chest.

Note: If her chest is big and her head is empty, i don’t know about you but i’m not doing….Wetin dey upstairs self se koko oo..eshamo..oya leggo

1. THEY GIVE THE BEST HUGS:

Having a busty girlfriend means you get the warmest, tightest, softest hugs because those jugs are so comfortable that you can just sink into them forever.

2. THEY LOOK DELICIOUS IN A T-SHIRT:

A busty girlfriend can also fill out a shirt pretty damn well. In fact, they can wear practically anything and look hot in it, since an ample bosom can make any girl look more feminine and proportionate.

3. THEY EVEN LOOK MORE DELICIOUS IN TANK TOPS:

While t-shirts look great on your busty girlfriend, she looks even better in a tank top. The tank hugs her body even more, giving her a curvier shape that you, and other onlookers, will appreciate for sure.

4. DID I FORGET TO MENTION LINGERIE:

While there’s no doubt she’ll be looking hands-down hot neykked, there’s still something to be said about those jugs being covered gingerly by lace and silk. Every time she shows up in lingerie, it’s like you have a pinup model all for your viewing—and touching—pleasure.

5. GUYS WILL SALUTE AND RESPECT YOU:

Another perk of having a beautifully endowed girlfriend is you’ll get nods of approval, if not admiration and envy, from other guys as you walk around with her in your arms. Talk about ultimate arm candy.

6. IT CAN DOUBLE AS A CUSHION:

You have a pillow when you cuddle. After some nookie, you hug each other and it just feels comforting to lie on one of her big breasts. Like a little boy coming home.

7. SOMETHING TO PLAY WITH:

Of course, compared to skinny, small-breasted girls, having one with big bumpers means more to love. Those lovelies are something to jiggle, tickle, touch, tease, fondle and squeeze.

8. BIG BOSSOMS NEVER GO ON LEAVE:

Having a busty girlfriend means you have an eat-all-you-can-buffet of bubs, a sky-is-the-limit-type of enjoyment, especially if you are indeed a boob guy. You have something some other guys only hope to get their hands on, but you are all over those puppies 24/7—and you love it.

I know some flat chested girl might want to comment and say i’m being unfair, relax and wait for your turn, when the spirit leads i might do an article on why guys should chase after you.lol…Don’t Cry yet..Big Boobs Girls Na den dey attention pass ..

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Daniel Amokachi pictured with his twin sons in Turkey

The former Super Eagles player pictured with his twin boys, Kalim and Nazim who play for top

 

Turkish football club, BJK Besiktas.

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Research Reveals Teenagers Should Be Shown Pornography In Class

London – Woman’s Hour host Jenni Murray says teenagers should be shown pornography in class and analyse it like they would a Jane Austen novel.

The Radio 4 presenter, 66, said youngsters could watch secx videos together before discussing it with a teacher.

She also said she wanted secx education classes to be known as ‘gender studies’ so parents would not object to children taking part.

Dame Jenni made the comments after she was asked how to tackle the prevalence of internet pornography – warning that a change in the education system was needed in order to deal with the problem.

She told an audience at the Cheltenham Literary Festival: ‘We give our kids Jane Austen to read and we say, “OK let’s analyse it”.

‘We might show them a news bulletin that has been on television the night before. Why not show them pornography and teach them how to analyse it?

‘You put boys and girls together in a class and you show them a pornographic film and you analyse it in exactly the same way as you teach them to read all the other cultures around them.’

Youngsters would be given the chance to discuss what they saw so they realised that ‘normal’ women did not behave like those who appear in X-rated films.

Girls were engaging in sexual acts not for themselves but because they ‘want to please boys’, she said. Dame Jenni also said she wanted to overhaul how children were taught about the facts of life in schools.

‘I would abolish secx education,’ she declared. ‘I would put the what goes where and how and how things are made and all of that into biology because that is science and no parent is going to say “oh, I don’t want my child getting involved in biology or science”.

‘Whereas an awful lot of parents might say, “I don’t want my child to have secx education”.

‘What we would then have is a compulsory subject called gender education, so it doesn’t have the word secx in it so nobody can complain or be upset.’

Dame Jenni’s comments come weeks after MPs recommended ‘age appropriate’ lessons in pornography in schools. It was revealed last month that a culture of internet porn among children as young as eight is helping to fuel widespread sexual harassment and violence.

Primary school children are learning about secx through exposure to hardcore porn, with some even becoming addicts. A hard-hitting report by the Commons’ women and equalities committee recommended age appropriate lessons in pornography after experts suggested it could be offered to children from primary school onwards.

MPs heard that many girls face regular pestering and cat-calling amid ‘shocking’ levels of abuse in corridors and classrooms. Some experience inappropriate touching, have their skirts lifted or underwear pulled down, while staff are under-reporting incidents and often failing to take them seriously.

Dame Jenni, a mother of two sons, said: ‘We were raised in the 60s and 70s during the sexual revolution [and] we found out about these things – we had books called Our Bodies, Ourselves. We wanted to know about our pleasure. Young women now are not doing that.’

The broadcaster blamed the rise in porn culture for the shift in attitudes, but conceded: ‘You can’t get rid of [porn]. It’s there, people make a lot of money out of it and the internet is uncontrollable. But what we can do is say to parents, “for goodness sake get onto this”. A lot of parents aren’t aware of what their kids are getting access to so I think we need to talk more to our children about it.’

Dame Jenni recently said the ‘gender war’ has not yet been won and that childcare and domestic violence were problem areas.

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Ice Prince Cries Every Week

Nigerian rapper, Ice Prince ''zamani'' is without an ounce of doubt one of Nigeria’s most successful names in music today.

Speaking in a radio interview with Soundcity radio 98.5 with Moet Abebe, the former Choc City rapper revealed that he cries at least three times a week.
He revealed that he cries every time he remembers all God has done for him each time he prays,how he moved from obscurity to prominence.

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'Strangers Around Her Husband' Aisha Buhari

    The wife of the President, Aisha Buhari, in a recent interview  blamed the crisis rocking the ruling All Progressives Congress (APC) on ‘strangers’ around her husband, President Muhammadu Buhari.

   She granted the Hausa Service of the British Broadcasting Corporation (BBC),an interview, Aisha said the president is surrounded by people reaping where they did not sow.
Many members of the party believe their contribution towards the president’s victory in the last general elections has not been rewarded, Aisha reportedly told the BBC in an interview that was aired yesterday. “This worries us a lot now, she said.
“Because they believe they are the ones who suffered, but are nowhere today. Those who didn’t do anything who don’t even have voters’ card are the ones in position, doing everything.”
She also quoted as saying: “What I am afraid for them is the rebellion of 15 million people,” in an allusion to the number of the people who voted the president into power last year.

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What!!! Amber Rose Reveals that the secret behind her radiant glowing skin is masturbation.(What is she trying to….)

32 year old model, actress and TV Personality Amber Rose has revealed that the secret to her ever glowing skin and radiant looks is masturbation. When asked by Glamour magazine the secret to her ever-glowing looks, she said;



“Masturbation,” Amber Rose confessed to Glamour. ‘I wish I had the time to masturbate every day in reality, but I don’t. I say a lot of those things on [The Amber Rose Show] because I am very secx-positive. I do say those things in a way where I am very serious, but it’s also a joke.”
She also openly discussed her lack of red carpet regrets.
“[I have] none. I just don’t give a s–t. I do what I want,” she said. “Then I put it out in the universe, and people talk. And then they get over it, you know?”

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